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Bring Back the Erring One -
The Duty of Soul Winning
James 5:19,20
by
Gary Young
The epistle of James finishes even
more abruptly than it began. Unlike many of Paul’s letters, which conclude with
a long series of personal greetings, James’ letter lacks such salutations
entirely. Instead, James concludes with an exhortation that is both sobering and
exciting: the duty, privilege and joy of being a soul winner. Although of course
souls winning applies equally to the duty to take the Gospel to the lost, who
have never yet heard it (Matthew 28: 19-20), the context of James’ comments in
this particular instance make it clear that he is talking about the one who has
once known the truth and has wandered away from it (James 5: 19-20). The actual
words James uses are an exhortation to those who are yet in the truth, that they
should actively pursue those who wander away from God, and bring them back to
Him. If we do that, James assures us, we will save a soul from death and hide a
multitude of sins. Surely such an exhortation should make us all desirous of
reaching those who are in error and helping them in any way we can.
The first question we need to ask
is that of to whom this verse is referring. Who are those who have wandered away
from the truth? The New Testament, despite the errors of some, unquestionably
teaches that it is possible to fall from grace, as we see for example in
Galatians 5: 4, as well as in the verses that we have under consideration today.
Those who have once learned and obeyed the truth, but who then apostatise, are
in a worse state than if they had never even heard the Gospel and obeyed it (2
Peter 2: 21-22). Clearly then, these people are lost, and it is the duty and
privilege of the Lord’s faithful people to restore those who err from the truth.
We have an example of just such a
person in Acts 8, where Luke recounts the story of Simon the Sorcerer. This man
was converted among the Samaritans, but later sinned when he offered money to
Peter to receive the ability to pass on the gifts of the Holy Spirit (Acts 8:
18-21). Peter immediately went about the process of restoring this man who had
obeyed the truth but then wandered from it - he administered a sharp rebuke,
which appears to have caused a change of heart in Simon (Acts 8: 22-24). We do
not know the subsequent history of Simon, although there are unsubstantiated
traditions that he again left the truth and founded a Gnostic sect. However,
what concerns us today is the restoration of his soul, and the part that Peter
played in it. Peter evidently saw both a need and a possibility to restore Simon
to the truth, and therefore he acted. We too must recognise the need to restore
the erring, and act to bring this about as Peter did.
When someone wanders off into the
world, there may be a variety of reasons that caused them to do so. Some may be
simply weak and unlearned in their faith, while others may become hardened
against the truth due to a carnal attitude in their heart, a desire to continue
in some sin, or the desire to promote some false teaching. We cannot simply put
down a detailed plan of action that we apply in all circumstances regardless of
the situation. Instead, we must show judgement and charity as we prepare to
restore such an one. The one option, however, that is emphatically not
open to us is the option of doing nothing. The methodology of winning back the
wanderer may vary on different occasions, but in each and every case we must
make an attempt to win him or her back! We are absolutely required by God to
reach out and warn the erring one of the eternal consequences of his actions,
for if we do not then God will hold us responsible for that man’s soul (Ezekiel
3: 17-21).
The Bible clearly speaks of making
a difference according to the spiritual state of the erring one. Is he wandering
because he is weak, or deliberately unruly? Is he someone in emotional and
spiritual difficulty, who needs above all else compassion, or is he a false
teacher who needs to be rebuked. We see such differences being made in, for
example, the following:
Now we exhort you, brethren, warn
them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient
toward all men (I Thessalonians 5: 14).
A similar idea is found in Jude,
who speaks of “making a difference” when we are restoring those who are in error
(Jude 22-23). In all cases, then, we must look to the spiritual needs and
situation of the one who is wandering. Clearly we are to show great compassion
and support to those who are weak in the faith. A new Christian, for example,
who is having difficulty with a concept would not be treated in the same way as
one who is well educated in the truth and who is well equipped to be able to
discern the truth himself. On the one hand we would carefully and patiently
explain the truth to them, possibly over a great length of time. Particularly if
the studies and teaching appear to be making headway, we must show patience and
forbearance as we teach the erring one. On the other hand, however, one who is
well grounded in the faith and who ought to know better will be treated
differently, especially if such a person is in a teaching position. Such people
would fit under the category of the “unruly” (I Thessalonians 5:14). While we
still must show patience, such an one must be immediately removed from any
opportunity to teach or otherwise promote his error, for the safety of the
congregation. We must not give place to false doctrine for even an hour
(Galatians 2: 5), and in such cases the elders or the men of the congregation
must act quickly.
Similarly, our approach will
differ depending on whether the sin which has been committed was a public one or
was committed in private, against just one brother. When the sin is against one
individual, then God requires that individual to approach the sinner himself
before anyone else is involved at all. Only when the sinner refuses to heed the
truth and continues in the sin is the error to come to the notice of the Lord’s
people (Matthew 18: 15-17). When error is committed in a public way, however,
the corrective action is to be public also (I Tim. 5: 20), although in these
instances too multiple approaches are to be made and space to repent must be
provided (Titus 3: 10). Notice, however, that the number of admonitions required
in Matthew 18 and in Titus 3 are different: clearly Matthew 18 is only
applicable in private matters between individuals, and is not to be seen
as a general pattern for church discipline.
Whatever the specific action
required by the Scriptures, it must be applied in love and with the object of
winning back the erring to the truth. There is never any excuse for a harsh,
bitter, confrontational and violent approach to this process! Those who do so
are committing a serious sin themselves, and need to repent of this - even if
the message we preach is true, we invalidate it when we do not preach it in love
(Ephesians 4: 15). It is very sad when we encounter actions of church discipline
or rebukes for sinful conduct which are conducted in an unloving manner, because
when we do this we give occasion to the sinner to speak against the truth (Titus
2: 8), and so make his restoration infinitely less likely. When we give in to
hurt feelings or the desire for personal revenge, we subvert completely God’s
intention of winning back the erring, and instead we drive him still further
away from the truth.
When the exhortation and
admonition which God requires has been done, often we will find that the one who
was wandering from the truth will come back and be restored. This is truly a
wonderful thing when this happens, and we can certainly appreciate the words of
James when this takes place. However, it is an unfortunate fact that not always
will the sinner see his error and come back to the truth. Sometimes he will
become hardened in error (I Timothy 4: 1-2), and drift further and further away.
As long as our admonitions are being heard, we are justified in continuing to
make them, but there comes a time when it is apparent that the sinner has no
intention of mending his ways and returning to the truth. Sadly, in such
instances the Bible gives us no option but to withdraw ourselves from that
person in recognition of the severed fellowship that exists (Matthew 18: 17;
Romans 16: 17; I Corinthians 5: 5; 2 Thessalonians 3: 6; Titus 3: 10; 2 John
9-11). We cannot then have an ordinary social relationship with that person,
because to do so will embolden that person to sin more (I Cor. 5: 1-2); it will
bring a bad influence into the church (I Corinthians 5: 6-7); and it will bid
Godspeed to error (2 John 9-11).
The time and the occasion at which
the Lord’s people must take this step will vary from case to case. We must only
do this when the person has beyond doubt severed their relationship and
fellowship with God and with fellow Christians by their unrepentant sin (I John
1: 7). This is true whether the sin is false teaching, gross immorality,
causing of division or other matters. We should be very careful, however, to
determine that this action is appropriate before we take it. Has the person
received proper Scriptural admonition, and been given space to repent of his
sin? Is it simply a personal matter which would best be overlooked, or is it
such that action must be taken? On this point, it is instructive to compare
Paul’s attitude to sound preachers with whom he had a personal difference
(Philippians 1: 15-16) with those who preached false doctrine (e.g. 2 Timothy 3:
1-5). Evidently personal disputes between preachers who are doctrinally sound
are not used as a basis of church discipline.
Even when such action is necessary
and has been taken, however, the process of admonition does not end. When we
have opportunity, we ought to still teach and admonish our erring brother with
the same love and patience that we showed before (2 Thessalonians 3: 15).
Sometimes there is a tendency to see the “disfellowshipping” (not a word that is
found in Scripture) as the end of the process of admonition, but it is not. We
never “write off” our brethren; we should continue to take opportunities to
maintain contact so that we can admonish them properly and teach them the way of
truth. There is no Scriptural foundation whatever for practices such as
“shunning” , or acting in a harsh or unpleasant way. Why would they ever want to
come back if we acted like that to them? The act of withdrawing ourselves
requires that we cease to have ordinary social contact with that person, but
that is all: nowhere are we told to shun them, or to avoid talking to them or
teaching them. They are still our brother, we still want them to come back, and
we must always leave the door open so that they can.
Another issue that should be
touched on is that of mishandled withdrawals. What happens when a church badly
mishandles its obligations to teach and admonish the erring? What if they had
motives of revenge or hate in their action? Does this then invalidate the action
that has been taken, and are other brethren then free to fellowship the sinner?
Virtually every brother who has been withdrawn from and who still claims to be a
faithful member of the Lord’s church has a sob story about how they were
mistreated, or how the action taken against them was taken out of hate, or
something similar. They thus contend that the action taken is invalid, and
should not be followed by the Lord’s people.
In such cases, which undoubtedly
do exist, we should examine I Corinthians 5: 11. In this verse, Paul tells us
quite simply that we must not keep company with a brother who is a fornicator,
covetous etc. Similarly, we are told that we must withdraw ourselves from every
brother that walks disorderly (2 Thessalonians 3: 6). In neither of these cases
is there any conditional aspect: if a brother is involved in such a sin, we must
withdraw ourselves, it matters not whether that man’s local congregation has
fulfilled its duty to him properly or not. The matter is simple: if a brother is
unrepentantly in sin, then faithful brethren must not have association with him.
If the local congregation has mishandled the matter or acted from improper
motives then they must repent of that immediately and confess their error: but
this does not affect the relationship of the church at large with the brother
who is in sin. Until he repents, he is outside the fellowship of God and His
church, for it is sin that breaks that fellowship, not the local congregation or
the church at large (I John 1: 7). We misunderstand Scripture if we imagine that
it is our job to declare someone “disfellowshipped” or not: the Scriptural
teaching is that the fellowship is already severed by unrepentant sin, and in
recognition of that the Lord’s people withdraw themselves from the sinning
brother.
Finally, we come to the matter of
restoration. This is the aim of all exhortation, admonition and even withdrawal.
What happens when the sinner wants to come back, and how does this take place?
The Bible tells us when in this situation that we must repent (Acts 8: 22) and
confess their sin (I John 1: 9). These are the only conditions which are placed
by God in this matter, and we must be very careful that we are not so
presumptuous as to add more. While “going forward” and/or writing “letters of
repentance” may be expedient manners of doing this and making it known, we
cannot and must not bind them as the only acceptable way of restoration. Who are
we to make such conditions? If a brother has ceased from his sin and apologises
for it, then Jesus bids us accept such an apology (Matthew 18: 21-22). We may
harbour personal doubts about his repentance, he may not express his confession
in the words that we ourselves would have chosen or that we feel he should: but
none of this is relevant. If he has ceased from the sin and has acknowledged, in
some form, his error, then he has met the Scriptural requirements for
restoration. We act in a presumptuous and unforgiving manner if we yet refuse
him, and this is expressly condemned by Jesus (Matthew 18: 23-35). This way of
restoration, moreover, applies whether the brother has been withdrawn from or
not: the Scripture makes no distinction.
The restoration of the erring is a
vital part of the work of the church, and James rightly gives it prominence as
the closing part of his letter to the Lord’s people. We must resolve to go
forward with this important work with vigour and determination, because this is
the Lord’s will. We must with patience and love bring back the erring, and be
careful to put no stumbling block in their way as we do so. When we fulfil this
command, we can know, as James puts it, that we are saving souls from death, and
covering a multitude of sins.
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